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settle down — 2 meanings

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phrasal verb2 meanings
  1. 1 become calmTo become quiet, relaxed, or less active, especially after being excited or upset.
  2. 2 start a stable lifeTo begin living a quieter, more regular life, often by getting married, starting a family, or staying in one place.

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1

become calm

B1settle down sthspokenMost common

To become quiet, relaxed, or less active, especially after being excited or upset.

After the teacher entered the room, the students quickly settled down.

A: The kids are running everywhere!
B: Don’t worry, they’ll settle down once the movie starts.

When I feel stressed before an exam, I try to take deep breaths to help myself settle down.

Common mistake

The kids couldn't settle down themselves.

The kids couldn't settle down.

Intransitive here — no reflexive object; you don't 'settle down yourself'.

Tell it apart

The class settled down after the bell.

became calm/quiet

They settled down in a small town.

made a permanent home
You can use 'settle down' when telling someone (or a group) to be less noisy or active, especially children or in a classroom.'Settle down' can mean to become calm or to start a stable life—make sure you choose the right meaning for the situation.

Often paired with

settle down
2

start a stable life

B2settle down with sb/in a place

To begin living a quieter, more regular life, often by getting married, starting a family, or staying in one place.

After traveling for years, she decided it was time to settle down and buy a house.

A: Do you think you’ll ever settle down?
B: Maybe in a few years, but I’m enjoying my freedom right now.

Many people choose to settle down in their late twenties, especially when they want to focus on their careers or start a family.

Common mistake

They want to settle down a family.

They want to settle down and start a family.

'Settle down' is intransitive here — you don't 'settle down' something.

Tell it apart

They settled down in a small town.

started a stable life

The class settled down after the bell.

became calm/quiet
You can use 'settle down' to talk about making long-term plans, like starting a family or choosing a place to live.This meaning is about life choices, not about calming down in a moment.

Often paired with

settle down + life stage

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