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settle down

start a stable life

To begin living a quieter, more regular life, often by getting married, starting a family, or staying in one place.

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Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

start a stable life

To begin living a quieter, more regular life, often by getting married, starting a family, or staying in one place.

settle down (become calm)

Another meaning of 'settle down' is 'become calm'; compare the examples to keep the meanings separate.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • After traveling for years, she decided it was time to settle down and buy a house.family
  • Many people choose to settle down in their late twenties, especially when they want to focus on their careers or start a family.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: settle down (with someone/in a place)

WrongThey want to settle down a family.

RightThey want to settle down and start a family.

'Settle down' is intransitive here — you don't 'settle down' something.

Patternsettle down (with someone/in a place)

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff I intend to establish a stable and permanent lifestyle.

Natural I'd like to settle down at some point.

'Settle down' carries the whole idea of putting down roots; the formal paraphrase sounds like a mission statement.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • settle down + life stage
    and start a familyin one placewith someoneeventually

Don't confuse it

This meaning is about life choices, not about calming down in a moment.

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