Are people where you're from chatty with strangers, or is small talk with someone you don't know a bit unusual?
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A natural way to answer
It varies enormously by region. In smaller towns, striking up a chat with a stranger is completely normal, almost expected. In busier urban areas, everyone rather keeps themselves to themselves, and an unsolicited chat can feel a little out of place.
Key phrases to use
- chat your ear off — talk to you for a very long time without stopping“My neighbour will chat your ear off given half a chance.”
- keep themselves to themselves — stay private and not mix much with others“City people often keep themselves to themselves.”
- out of place — not fitting in or not appropriate for the situation“A friendly chat there felt a bit out of place.”
- catch visitors off guard — surprise people who aren't prepared for it“The friendliness catches visitors off guard.”
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