Have you ever had to redefine success on your own terms rather than by what others expect?

A natural way to answer

I have, actually. There came a point where the usual markers — title, salary, status — stopped meaning much to me. Redefining success meant valuing time and freedom over appearances, and learning not to measure up to other people's yardsticks.

Key phrases to use

• draw the line — set a clear limit on what you will or won't accept“You have to draw the line somewhere.”
• measure up to — be as good as a standard or expectation“He worried he didn't measure up to his father.”
• keep up with the Joneses — try to match the lifestyle and possessions of those around you“Buying a bigger car just to keep up with the Joneses is exhausting.”