What's something a grandparent or older relative taught you that has stuck with you into adulthood?

A natural way to answer

My grandmother taught me the value of patience. She'd say that good things rarely come quickly, and that lesson has shaped the way I approach almost everything. Whenever I feel like giving up too soon, I remember her quiet persistence.

Key phrases to use

• take your time — to do something slowly and carefully without rushing“Take your time — there's no hurry.”
• stand someone in good stead — to be very useful to someone, especially in the future“Those skills will stand you in good stead.”
• shape the way — to strongly influence how someone thinks or does something“That experience shaped the way I see the world.”
• look out for someone — to take care of someone and protect their interests“Big brothers are supposed to look out for you.”
• leave its mark — to have a lasting and noticeable effect on someone“That year really left its mark on me.”
• live by — to follow a particular rule or principle in how you lead your life“Honesty is a value I try to live by.”