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Looking back, how have your friendships changed as you've got older?

B2People & relationshipsReflect

A natural way to answer

Over the years, I've realised that quality matters more than quantity. As a teenager, I wanted to be part of a big group, but now I value a few deep friendships instead. We see each other less often, but the bond feels stronger.

Key phrases to use

  • drifted apart — gradually became less close, usually without any argument“We were best friends at school but slowly drifted apart.”
  • stuck by me — stayed loyal and supportive during a difficult time“She stuck by me when everyone else left.”
  • let go of — to stop holding on to something or someone, often emotionally“I had to let go of that friendship for my own peace.”

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