When you're not sure what to say, what's the topic you instinctively fall back on?

B Natural answer

If I am unsure, I usually fall back on work or school, because most people can answer that without thinking too hard. After that, I might ask about what people are watching or listening to, since that can lead to a real conversation. Sometimes I also bring up a a new food spot nearby, because food is such an easy subject. I keep it simple and try not to sound like I am interviewing them. The main thing is to give the other person an easy way to join in.

Key phrases in this answer

• work or school — A common topic about someone's job, classes, or daily routine.“Work or school is usually an easy thing to ask about.”
• what people are watching — A way to ask about shows, videos, sports, or online content.“I asked what people are watching and the conversation got easier.”
• a new food spot — A new restaurant, cafe, or place to eat that people can talk about.“A new food spot is an easy topic because everyone has an opinion on food.”
• the weather — A very easy small-talk topic that almost everyone can comment on.“I usually start with the weather if the room feels quiet.”
• safe topics — Topics that are easy and low-pressure, like food, plans, or hobbies.“I stick to safe topics until people seem more relaxed.”
• what I've been up to — A relaxed way to talk about recent life, activities, or updates.“I often say what I've been up to when I want to start talking.”