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Some people say manners are getting worse these days. What do you think?

B2Manners & customsOpinion

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I see why people say that, and in some situations I agree. Public behavior can feel rougher now because of phones, online arguments, and people being in a hurry. But I don't think manners have disappeared. I still see plenty of people , , and help strangers without making a big show of it. What may have changed is that small good manners are less visible than bad behavior, which spreads faster online. So people remember the rude moments more. In everyday life, I think most people still care about , but they do them quickly instead of in a very formal way. So overall, I'd say manners are different, not completely worse these days. The standard is a bit less stiff, but the basic idea is still there.

Key phrases in this answer

  • hold the door — keep a door open for someone behind you“I always hold the door for older people.”
  • say thank you — express gratitude out loud“It takes two seconds to say thank you.”
  • small gestures — tiny actions that show kindness or respect“Small gestures can change the whole mood of a room.”
  • basic politeness — simple everyday courtesy people expect“Basic politeness means greeting people and not ignoring them.”
  • on the spot — at the exact moment or in person, right then“He seems more relaxed in messages than on the spot.”
  • constant distraction — a situation where people are always being interrupted or pulled away“Constant distraction makes it hard to focus on other people.”

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