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What advice would you give to someone who's shy and finds it hard to make new friends?

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I'd suggest joining a club or class where you share an interest with others, because it gives you something natural to talk about. It also helps to be patient with yourself. Friendships take time, so don't expect to make a best friend overnight.

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  • break the ice — to do or say something to make people feel more relaxed in a new situation“He told a joke to break the ice.”
  • come out of your shell — to become more confident and less shy around others“Since starting drama club, she's really come out of her shell.”
  • put on a brave face — to hide your worry or fear and appear calm and confident“She was nervous but put on a brave face.”

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