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Tell me about a time you completely misjudged someone when you first met them.

C1People & relationshipsTell a story

B Natural answer

A few years ago I met a woman at work who seemed extremely strict and hard to approach. She spoke very directly, never smiled much in meetings, and I assumed she would be difficult to get along with. In other words, I thought she was cold. Then we were assigned to the same project, and I saw a different side of her. Under pressure, she was calm, organized, and incredibly supportive. She always asked practical questions, helped people fix mistakes without embarrassing them, and made sure the team stayed on track. The project actually because she kept everyone focused when things got messy. After a while, she a bit and started telling jokes, which surprised everyone. I also noticed that she would of checking in with the quieter people, which showed real care. Looking back, I’d judged her by her expression instead of her character, and that was completely wrong.

Key phrases in this answer

  • worked out fine — ended successfully or without problems“The project worked out fine in the end.”
  • opened up — started to share thoughts or feelings more freely“She opened up after we worked together for a while.”
  • make a point — deliberately do something because it matters to you“She makes a point of replying quickly.”
  • quiet guy — a man who speaks little and seems calm or reserved“He was a quiet guy, but he was very thoughtful once he opened up.”
  • totally off — completely wrong or not matching reality“My first impression was totally off.”
  • given me the wrong vibe — created an impression that later turned out to be inaccurate“He had given me the wrong vibe at first.”

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