Is there someone in your life who pushes you to be a better version of yourself?

B Natural answer

Yes, my best friend does that for me. He is the kind of person who keeps me accountable without making me feel bad. For example, if I say I want to learn something new, he will check in a few days later and ask what progress I have made. That sounds simple, but it really helps. He also likes to raise the bar, because he pushes me to think bigger instead of just doing the minimum. When I am comfortable, he reminds me to step up and try something that feels a little harder. I do not think I would grow as much without that kind of friendship. What I like most is that he pushes me in a supportive way. He does not compete with me; he just wants me to become more confident and capable. That makes it easier to listen to him, even when his advice is challenging.

Key phrases in this answer

• keeps me accountable — makes me responsible for doing what I said I would do“My friend keeps me accountable by asking about my progress.”
• raise the bar — to make the standard higher or harder to reach“Good teachers raise the bar and expect more from students.”
• step up — to start doing more or taking more responsibility“When the team needed help, she stepped up.”
• call me out — to point out a mistake or lazy behavior directly“My sister will call me out when I am making excuses.”
• stay on track — to keep making steady progress toward a goal“A routine helps me stay on track with my goals.”
• seeing my potential — recognizing what someone could become or achieve“My coach is good at seeing my potential before I do.”