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Meeting someone new B1

That first spark — finding things in common and maybe asking them out.

Finding things in common

familiar face — person you recognizeA: I get nervous in big crowds.
B: Me too, but spotting a familiar face always helps me relax.

common ground — shared interest or agreementA: I thought you and your new colleague were very different.
B: We are, but we found some common ground talking about our families.

common interest — shared interestA: How did you and Sam become close?
B: We found a common interest in hiking, so we started going on trips together.

hit it off — instantly get onWe really clicked when we met. (casual)
We got along very well from the start. (polite)

Making the first move

ask out — invite on a dateA: Did you hear? Ben asked Mia out last night!
B: Really? I hope she said yes!

At a friend's party

Mia: You look like a familiar face — have we met before?

Tom: Maybe at Sam's last summer? I'm Tom, by the way.

Mia: Tom, right! So what do you do when you're not at parties?

Tom: Mostly climbing — turns out we've got some common ground there.

Plucking up the courage

Tom: I've really enjoyed talking to you tonight.

Mia: Same here — I wasn't expecting to click with anyone.

Tom: So… would it be weird if I asked you out for a coffee sometime?

Mia: Not weird at all. I'd like that.

An unexpected connection

Mia: How was the dinner with your sister's new flatmate?

Tom: Honestly brilliant — we totally hit it off, talked for hours.

Mia: Really? You were dreading it this morning.

Tom: I know. Funny how you just click with some people straight away.

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