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come out

declare sexual orientation

To publicly reveal that you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or otherwise not heterosexual, often after having kept it private.

phrasal verbC1common

Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

declare sexual orientation

To publicly reveal that you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or otherwise not heterosexual, often after having kept it private.

come out (be released (for books, movies, products, etc.))

'come out' also has the more basic meaning 'be released (for books, movies, products, etc.)'; this is the advanced sense.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • After years of hiding his true self, he finally decided to come out at the age of 25.identity
  • In recent years, more public figures have chosen to come out, which has contributed to greater acceptance and understanding within society.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: come out (as [sexual orientation])

WrongHe came out himself as gay.

RightHe came out as gay. / He came out to his parents.

No reflexive — 'come out as X' or 'come out to someone'.

Patterncome out (as [sexual orientation])

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff He publicly disclosed his homosexuality to his family.

Natural He came out to his family.

'Come out' is the established, respectful term; 'publicly disclosed his homosexuality' is clinical and dated.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • come out + as/to
    as gayto his parentsas bisexualat work

Don't confuse it

Unlike the B2 sense 'become known (information, truth, secret)', this sense is specifically about publicly declaring one's sexual orientation or gender identity, not just any secret or information.

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