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break up

end a romantic relationship

When two people break up, they end their romantic relationship.

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Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

end a romantic relationship

When two people break up, they end their romantic relationship.

break up (separate into smaller pieces)

Another meaning of 'break up' is 'separate into smaller pieces'; compare the examples to keep the meanings separate.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • After dating for two years, they decided to break up.relationships
  • In my opinion, it's better to break up than to stay in an unhappy relationship.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: break up (with someone)

WrongShe broke up her boyfriend last week.

RightShe broke up with her boyfriend last week.

You 'break up WITH' someone — don't drop 'with'.

Patternbreak up (with someone)

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff My partner and I have terminated our romantic relationship.

Natural My boyfriend and I broke up.

'Break up' is the everyday verb for a couple splitting; 'terminated our relationship' is bizarrely formal.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • break up with
    with himwith herfor goodover text

Don't confuse it

Not the same as 'break down', which means to stop working or to become very emotional.

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