could you possibly...?
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A polite way to ask someone to do something.
Could you possibly send me the file again?
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How to say "Softening a request" in English
A request can be grammatically correct and still sound like an order. Softening is the difference.
could you possibly...?
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The safest default: natural, clear, and easy to adapt.
A: Could you possibly send that over today?
B: Sure, I'll do it after lunch.
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Softening a requestWhat do you mean?
would you mind...?
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A classic polite request.
Would you mind closing the door?
when you get a chance
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No immediate rush.
Could you check this when you get a chance?
if it's not too much trouble
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Use for bigger favors.
If it's not too much trouble, could you resend it?
can you...?
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Normal with people you know.
Can you send me the link?
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Default
You want the simple, natural option.
could you possibly...?
Best first choice.
Softer
You want to sound warmer or less blunt.
would you mind...?
Good for people.
Stronger
You want more color or emphasis.
when you get a chance
Use when it fits.
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Say it like...
could you possibly...?.
Simple and natural.Could you possibly...? here, so I'll be careful with the next step.
Work-safe version.I'm sorry, but could you possibly...?.
Adds a softener.could you possibly...? tbh
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