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check in

self-reflect

To pause and consciously assess your own feelings, thoughts, or progress, often as part of self-care or personal development.

phrasal verbC1occasional

Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

self-reflect

To pause and consciously assess your own feelings, thoughts, or progress, often as part of self-care or personal development.

check in (register on arrival)

'check in' also has the more basic meaning 'register on arrival'; this is the advanced sense.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • It's important to check in with yourself regularly to make sure you're not feeling overwhelmed.mental_health
  • Many experts recommend that students check in with themselves during exam periods to monitor their stress levels and maintain wellbeing.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: check in with yourself / check in on your progress

WrongI try to check in to myself each morning.

RightI try to check in with myself each morning.

'Check in WITH yourself', not 'to'.

Patterncheck in with yourself / check in on your progress

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff It is important to consciously assess one's own emotional state regularly.

Natural It helps to check in with yourself now and then.

'Check in with yourself' is the natural wellness phrase; the formal version is textbook.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • check in with yourself
    with yourselfemotionallynow and thenhow you feel

Don't confuse it

Unlike the B1 sense of 'check in' (registering arrival) or the B2 sense (contacting someone briefly), this sense is figurative and refers to turning your attention inward to assess your own state or progress.

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