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open up — talk honestly

phrasal verbB2IELTS 6+neutralcommon

To start talking more honestly or freely about your feelings, thoughts, or experiences.

Say it like a native

Textbook He gradually disclosed his innermost feelings to me.

Native He slowly started to open up to me.

'Open up' is the natural verb for sharing feelings; 'disclose innermost feelings' is clinical.

Pattern: open up (to someone/about something)

In use

  • It took a while, but eventually he opened up about his worries.relationships
  • In my opinion, it's important for people to open up to their friends when they're feeling stressed, because talking can really help.IELTS speaking

Common mistake

✗ It took him a while to open up with me.

✓ It took him a while to open up to me.

You 'open up TO someone', not 'with'.

Common collocations

  • open up + to someone — to me, to a friend, about it, emotionally

Don't confuse it

Not the same as 'open up' meaning to make something accessible or available.

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