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hold back — restrain emotion

phrasal verbB1IELTS 5+neutralcommon

to stop yourself from showing your feelings, especially strong emotions like anger, sadness, or excitement

Say it like a native

Textbook She restrained her tears with great difficulty.

Native She could hardly hold back the tears.

'Hold back (tears)' is the natural collocation. 'Restrained her tears' is stiff.

Pattern: hold back (tears/laughter/emotion)

In use

  • She tried to hold back her tears during the sad movie.daily life
  • In stressful situations, I sometimes find it hard to hold back my frustration, especially when things don't go as planned.IELTS speaking

Common mistake

✗ He held his anger back inside.

✓ He held back his anger.

'Hold back + emotion'. 'Inside' is redundant.

Common collocations

  • hold back + emotion — the tears, her anger, a laugh, his feelings

Don't confuse it

Not the same as 'hold on' (wait) or 'hold up' (delay).

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