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fall apart

become emotionally unable to cope

To lose control of your emotions and feel unable to deal with a situation.

phrasal verbB2common

Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

become emotionally unable to cope

To lose control of your emotions and feel unable to deal with a situation.

fall apart (break into pieces)

Another meaning of 'fall apart' is 'break into pieces'; compare the examples to keep the meanings separate.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • She fell apart after hearing the bad news.family
  • Some people fall apart under stress, while others manage to stay calm.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: fall apart (subject: person)

WrongHe fell apart himself after the breakup.

RightHe fell apart after the breakup.

'Fall apart' is intransitive — no reflexive 'himself'.

Patternfall apart (subject: person)

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff Following the loss, she became emotionally unable to function.

Natural After the loss, she completely fell apart.

'Fall apart' is how people describe an emotional collapse; the clinical paraphrase feels detached.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • fall apart + emotionally
    completelyafterat the funeralunder pressure

Don't confuse it

'Break down' often means crying suddenly; 'fall apart' is more about not coping overall.

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