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come apart

lose emotional control

To become unable to control your emotions, often as a result of stress, shock, or grief.

phrasal verbC1occasional

Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

lose emotional control

To become unable to control your emotions, often as a result of stress, shock, or grief.

come apart (break into pieces)

'come apart' also has the more basic meaning 'break into pieces'; this is the advanced sense.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • After hearing the news, she completely came apart and couldn't stop crying.emotions
  • Some people are able to cope with adversity, while others may come apart when faced with unexpected challenges.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: come apart (emotionally/mentally/at the seams)

WrongHe came apart from the pressure.

RightHe came apart under the pressure.

People come apart UNDER pressure, not 'from'.

Patterncome apart (emotionally/mentally/at the seams)

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff She lost all control of her emotions following the bad news.

Natural She just came apart when she heard.

'Come apart' (or 'fall apart') vividly captures someone breaking down; the paraphrase is clinical.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • come apart (emotionally)
    under pressureat the seamscompletelyinside

Don't confuse it

Unlike the B1 sense ('break into pieces' physically), this sense is figurative and refers to a person's emotional or mental state, not a physical object.

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