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calm down

make someone calm

To help someone else feel less upset, angry, or excited.

phrasal verbB1common

Don't mix these meanings

Same phrase, different job.

make someone calm

To help someone else feel less upset, angry, or excited.

calm down (become calm)

Another meaning of 'calm down' is 'become calm'; compare the examples to keep the meanings separate.

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Hear it in context

Notice where the phrase sounds natural.

  • She tried to calm her son down after he started crying.family
  • In stressful situations at work, it's important to know how to calm your colleagues down.IELTS speaking

Fix the pattern

Pattern: calm (someone) down

WrongIt took ages to calm down him.

RightIt took ages to calm him down.

With a pronoun, the object goes in the middle: 'calm him down'.

Patterncalm (someone) down

Use it right

Choose the version that sounds natural in speech.

Stiff I attempted to pacify the distressed child.

Natural I tried to calm the baby down.

'Calm someone down' is the everyday verb for soothing them; 'pacify' is formal.

Build natural chunks

Words that usually travel with it.

  • calm someone down
    the babyhim downthe crowdher

Don't confuse it

This sense is about helping another person, not yourself.

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