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calm down — make someone calm

phrasal verbB1IELTS 5+neutralcommon

To help someone else feel less upset, angry, or excited.

Say it like a native

Textbook I attempted to pacify the distressed child.

Native I tried to calm the baby down.

'Calm someone down' is the everyday verb for soothing them; 'pacify' is formal.

Pattern: calm (someone) down

In use

  • She tried to calm her son down after he started crying.family
  • In stressful situations at work, it's important to know how to calm your colleagues down.IELTS speaking

Common mistake

✗ It took ages to calm down him.

✓ It took ages to calm him down.

With a pronoun, the object goes in the middle: 'calm him down'.

Common collocations

  • calm someone down — the baby, him down, the crowd, her

Don't confuse it

This sense is about helping another person, not yourself.

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