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bear with — be patient with

phrasal verbB1IELTS 5+neutralcommon

to stay patient and not get annoyed while someone is doing something slowly or making mistakes.

Say it like a native

Textbook Kindly exercise patience while I retrieve the file.

Native Bear with me a sec while I find it.

'Exercise patience while I retrieve' is over-formal; 'bear with me' is the natural request.

Pattern: bear with + someone

In use

  • Could you please bear with me while I find your file?daily life
  • In my last job, I often had to ask customers to bear with me when our system was down.IELTS speaking

Common mistake

✗ Please bear with my late reply.

✓ Please bear with me — sorry for the late reply.

'Bear with' takes a person ('bear with me'), not a thing.

Common collocations

  • bear with + person — me, us, me a moment, thanks for

Don't confuse it

Not the same as 'put up with', which means to tolerate something unpleasant over time.

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