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Coming across the right way B1

How you sound to others — being straight with people without giving too much away.

come across B2 — seem or give an impressionA: Did I come across as rude in the meeting?
B: No, you were just being honest.

make up — invent (a story, excuse, etc.)A: Did you really see a celebrity at the café?
B: No, I just made it up.

tell the truth — be honestA: Did you break the vase?
B: I'll tell the truth—I did it by accident.

After the interview

Ellie: How did I do? Did I come across alright?

Mark: Honestly? You came across as a bit nervous, but in a nice way.

Ellie: I think I held back too much. Should've just told the truth about why I left.

Mark: Next time don't make anything up — they can always tell.

Keeping a secret

Sophie: Whatever you do, don't give it away — it's meant to be a surprise.

Will: I won't, but I'm rubbish at lying. I always come across as dead shifty.

Sophie: Just don't make up some daft story. Say nothing and hold back.

Will: Fine. Easier to just tell the truth and say I can't say, eh?

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